I may write more later, but wanted to just get the info out for now. We went to a doctor's appointment yesterday and found out that the baby miscarried in the last couple of days. This morning I had a DNC, which went as well as could be hoped for. I'm going to sleep now, since we've been up since 5 and they gave me perkoset. Keep us in mind since we're getting ready to celebrate Elena's birthday tomorrow, and have most of our families coming in starting tomorrow for the weekend. I really want it to be special for Elena, and I really don't want it to be marked with sadness for her. And, I'm not yet in a place where I know how to accomplish all of that right now. Prayers would be appreciated as to how to grieve such a loss and celebrate such a joy in a 48 hour period. It seems like a lot right now. Thanks.